At
11 a.m. , on June 15th 2018, at Chatteris War Memorial, Cambs,
two local men will be/ were remembered, on the exact centenary of
their deaths on the Western Front. They were both killed by shell
fire.
They
were not in the same unit or location - their graves are more than
260 km apart - and yet I have 'one degree of separation'
connections to both of them.
This
blog, and an associated post on Facebook on the exact anniversary,
remembers them, in recognition of what seems to me a strange
coincidence, and on behalf of my late grandfather and grandmother,
who are my respective links to them.
One,
Cyril Lovell, was (as told to me in boyhood) 'Grandpa's best
friend'; and the other, Fred Squires, was Grandma's cousin (she
was christened Dora Squires Kemp).
I
don't know whether there was any connection between the two men in
life. From my own memories of growing up in Chatteris, fifty years
later, I would guess that they probably 'knew of' each other. They
might well both have attended the (then new) King Edward School at
the same time. But beyond that, they probably moved in very
different circles in the town.
My
grandfather, Alg(ernon) Kirton Graham, also served on the Western
Front, in the RFC and then the RAF. He came home safe, and here am
I, a hundred years on, and all but fifty years older than either
Cyril or Fred ever was, to remember.
Grandma's
mother and Fred's father were brother and sister. Grandma was the
youngest of her family, and about six years older than Fred - it
is tempting to surmise that she might sometimes have 'kept an eye
on' him in his boyhood. What I do know, and remember very clearly,
is that around 1960, she and Grandpa took their summer holiday in
Eastbourne, and when they came, she spoke, in that sadly
portentous way women of her generation had, of looking across the
Channel towards France, and thinking of 'all those who went over
there, and never came back'.
The
Squires were, obviously, 'a generation further back' to us growing
up in Chatteris in the 50's and 60's. But the link is there in the
genes. My sister Lesley is now a living reminder of Grandma and
her sister Emily, and we know from family history and old photos
that that particular 'face' is actually a Squires look.
The
links to Cyril Lovell also go wide and long.
My
sister Lesley and I had a classic rocking horse handed down to us
in the 1950's, from our cousins-once-removed Richard and Alison
Graham, and my memory is that it originally came from the Lovells.
Much
later, of course, Lovell and Ward took over Graham and Fisher's
premises at 36 High Street, as acquired and set up by my
great-grandfather Tom Graham, home, and later workplace, to Alg
and his brother Spencer (father of Richard and Alison). My father
Douglas, and later my mother, and Richard, all worked there. And
Mum, Dad and I lived in rooms there briefly in 1947 - 50. (Those
who actually remember the original Lovell and Ward's store, which
occupied the triangular plot where Railway Lane runs into High
Street -now a paved public space - must all be pensioners, I
think.)
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Saturday, 9 June 2018
Two Chatteris boys, killed the same day, June 15th, 1918
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